The real me, whether I blob or triumph, you were always the place that I returned to. Well, had, before the Butts screwed us up, and then that weird Testicle Monster thing. But one thing I know we do deserve is the love that we have for each other. I know you don't think we deserve anything good. I say fսck Niles Caulder for most things but. But, one day, you crazy bunch of misfits who are just like me, came into my life. All of my life, I have been the imposter masquerading as Rita Farr. And I think that's just a good sign of when you see healing happening, let it happen and get some healing for yourself.Lana Jean Turner (young) Images " All of my life, I have felt like a fraud.
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We try to parent people around us who need help, and we parent them so much that we don't let them be free and be themselves and actually grow. And I think that with us, it's true of us too. And that's what she learns with that trip that she has at the pool. There's not going to be any growth with repression. And what she's doing is repressing, and that's no help to anyone. The roles actually reverse: Kay is being the parent and telling Jane that she's allowed to be herself and to make mistakes and to enjoy herself and to have all of these feelings because Jane is already experiencing all of these. That's not a help to me," Kay is saying, and Jane realizes this, and that's why it's such a beautiful moment in Episode 5 when Kay talks to Jane almost in. And what I want is for you to figure out what you want for your life because you will no longer serve me if I'm growing, and you're still trying to do the same thing and operate in the same way. You can actually work on yourself because I'm doing okay. And of course, you would forget about that when you're not paying attention to your own healing and your own growth.Īnd that's when Kay says, "Hey, you don't have to be my parent. we have more than just one purpose, right? And if we see that growth is happening, then we should not be stopping it, right? Jane was so focused on protecting Kay that she forgot about what happens when there is some healing involved, that it's not just protecting someone, it's helping someone heal or being alongside someone in their healing process.
Yeah, I think that sometimes we forget that we don't need to. It just keeps moving forward and forward and forward.
And that's what makes this season so exciting. So now you're in this race to make it all right, to make it all worthwhile. But yeah, you see her facing the end of her, and what a shame it is to all of a sudden understand a little bit more about yourself, and all of a sudden, now you have to die. Some sort of weird Benjamin Button thing. You know walk, and then have geriatric problems all at the same time. It's like a baby learning to walk quickly. I think she has so much more flavor to her, which I can appreciate. I think Jane's incredibly nuanced, especially this season. And I think that's what you see in the show, which I think is done so beautifully. That's why we can't really skip these times in our lives and when we do, which many of us do, there is trauma, and there are problems later on. And she can, she can easily, but she wouldn't have been able to if she didn't have that experience.Īnd I think that's what progress looks like. And I think that she realizes that after that experience, and then as soon as she's thrust into old age and to the idea where she has to face her own mortality, she has to sort of leave that all behind. And so she didn't understand that that was an immature way to behave. Because I mean, she's smoking jays and she's just kind of "whatevering" everyone, but she's in her 70s, really, in reality. And I guess to live the adolescent part a little bit, Jane's like, "Okay, I get it. And that's why she's living through this experience. What I need in order for me to be okay, is for you to have these experiences, to care about yourself." Because if someone doesn't care about themselves or understands themselves, how the hell are they going to help anyone else or be of any service?Īnd she's showing Jane that growth is good, even though that's exactly what Jane wants for Kay but she doesn't totally, totally get it. And I think she begins to get why Kay is saying, "Hey, you need to have your own purpose. But as soon as she starts to live that, she understands a little more about her surroundings, about her wants and her needs. And she's never really understood or thought that she needed that. And so even though she says, or she's never really understood the importance of having an adolescence for someone's growth, right? In order for one to get from A to B, there needs to be that experience from A to B. GUERRERO: Yeah, I think she's never really experienced or had to care about her personal experiences or her personal feelings.
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